10 Gay Guys Describe the Sexiest Things Men Do Without Realizing It

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1. “I love watching guys stretch, especially when they know they’re not being spied on. I work at a coffee shop on a side corner in Chicago where a lot of runners go by in the morning—every time a guy stops at a cross walk he’ll stretch his legs or reach his arms to the sky and pull them behind his back, revealing a trickle of muscle. I’m turned on every time.”

– Esteban, 23


2. “I like watching guys put on chapstick, especially when they know someone is looking. They do it slowly and really focus on the entire perimeter of each lip. It doesn’t help that I’m a complete sucker for lips and I instantly imagine what they feel like kissing.”

– Greg, 33


3. “Give me a man and a dog any day! My boyfriend’s dog is the cutest thing, and watching the way he treats her gets me every time. He’ll kiss the same spot on her nose and snuggle with her with such kindness and love it makes me daydream of having future children, but most of the time it just gets me horny.”

– Josh, 20


4. “I get turned on watching a man read a book, especially when he really gets into it and his lips start moving along with the words. It’s adorable and a turn on because he’s completely transfixed, unaware of anything happening around him. I just want him to read to me while we’re both naked on the couch.”

– Daniel, 46


5. “Laughing gets me every time, but even more than that it’s the buildup to getting there. It’s a smile at first, then complete focus. His eyes will change once he gets the joke and then he’ll bust out laughing–gums, teeth and all.”

– Malachi, 25


6. “I love watching a man get dressed. I see it every day in the locker room. Guys come out of the shower in a towel, then slowly put on their undies, their socks, and eventually their pants. Their hair is still wet as they button up their shirt and straighten their tie. Sometimes they’ll leave dripping, but my favorite is when they blow-dry. Something about watching a man focus on himself and his appearance during those short ten to twenty minutes makes me feel like a peeping tom. It’s simple, but ridiculously hot.”

– Jimmy, 24


7. “I don’t know what it is but seeing a guy who’s confused turns me on, especially when it happens quickly. Sometimes I’ll see a guy feeling confident about himself and all of a sudden, he realizes he’s walking the wrong direction or someone calls him who’s number he doesn’t recognize or something happens unexpectedly to make him tilt his head, lift an eyebrow and gaze at the world in wonderment. I used to think it was funny but now I think it’s ridiculously cute and I get hard just thinking about it.”

– Kyle, 28


8. “I love watching a man have a really good conversation on the phone with someone, especially when he doesn’t think people are looking. The immense joy he shows through his eyes and smile is always genuine and intoxicating and makes me want to pet his face.”

– Gabriel, 30


9. “Seeing a man who’s trying to hold in a laugh is the sexiest thing ever. You can see in his eyes that he really wants to crack up but is trying to be P.C. about the whole thing. His lips start to pucker and he might get flushed in the cheeks. When he makes eye contact with you trying to see if you’re in the same boat, it’s so freaking cute.”

– Josh, 32


10. “I don’t know why but awkwardness is sexy to me, probably because I think it’s so funny. Guys who own their awkwardness are the best of the bunch. They’ll say jokes that fall flat, but still think it’s hysterical; or they’ll geek out on some new gadget no one thinks is cool but him. Shy guys, nerds, and geeks are so sexy.”

Nico, 27

David Artavia

Writer

David lives in New York City, where he acts, writes and lives vicariously through his friends.

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