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Why the Bully Always Wins
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Comedian Michael Henry doesn’t know how to stop being funny, which is why he’s a friend of ours (duh!), b…
Parents: Stop Forcing Your Sons to be Masculine
When I was five, my mom decided it was time for me to go hunting. Perhaps the gun and cowboy boots would knock some m…
It Pays to be Sarcastic in the Gay Community
I don’t need to tell you the gay community is full of sarcastic assholes — I’m one of them! There’s nothing wrong wit…
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It Pays to be Sarcastic in the Gay Community
I don’t need to tell you the gay community is full of sarcastic assholes — I’m one of them! There’s nothing wrong wit…
How Grindr Affects Your Brain
I have never been a truly sad person. My morning ritual consists of waking up, turning towards the window, smiling, s…
Stop Begging for a Man’s Love if He’s Not Giving It in Return
In my household we were told that love is the measure of our value. We are’t judged by how much we love, but by how m…
How Are Gay Guys Supposed to Date in Today’s Hookup Culture?
I remember when Grindr first came out. Most gay guys bashed it: “That’s so trashy, I would never do that,” my friends…
Look at Where You’re Going, Not at Where You Are
It’s easy to feel worthless when things aren’t happening as fast or as promising as we expect. We work hard, play har…
Stop Breaking Up Because Your Relationship Isn’t Perfect
Expectations are at an all time high, and everyone is struggling to catch up to what we assume they are. We can’t see…
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It Pays to be Sarcastic in the Gay Community
I don’t need to tell you the gay community is full of sarcastic assholes — I’m one of them! There’s nothing wrong wit…
7 Naughty Gay Sex Tips To Do With Your Man Christmas Night
It’s that time of year, and I’m in the mood for some hot steamy Christmas cheer, okerr! There’s nothing wrong with be…
What Makes You ‘Ready to Date’?
Be Proud of What You’re Selling! Dating has turned into a 12-step program. We think in order to make ourselves dateab…
How Grindr Affects Your Brain
I have never been a truly sad person. My morning ritual consists of waking up, turning towards the window, smiling, s…
Is it Hard for Older Gay Guys to Date Men Their Own Age?
You can’t help who you fall in love with. That’s a lesson I learned the hard way, but now that I’m getting older I’m …