The Difference Between Image & Self-Esteem
There’s never a dull moment in a gay guy’s imagination, but sometimes our imaginations can become our greatest enemy. For decades, we…
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Is It Hard for Older Gay Guys to Date Men Their Own Age?
You can’t help who you fall in love with. That’s a lesson I learned the hard way, but now that I’m getting…
Why I’d Rather Depend on Fate Than Go on Another Tinder Date
I’m not going to pretend that Tinder isn’t a thing with gay guys. Sure the same dudes online are the same ones you…
Is It Ever OK to Give Up Your Career for a Man?
Men are trained in society to be breadwinners. We’re programmed to become “pack leaders” successful enough to secure and protect our family. Traditionally it’s been…
Are Gay Guys Becoming Man Children?
Gay culture is constructed in a way that almost prevents us from growing up. When I ventured into West Hollywood in my…
We’re Never ‘Too Busy’ to Fall in Love
It’s a busy world we live in, and we’re usually the first ones to remind ourselves. In an age where many of…
Here’s Why Short Men Are Sexier Than Tall Guys…
I’ve been called numerous names in my life. I was the tallest guy in my junior high class, but the summer before my…
11 Out Male Athletes Are Competing in the Rio Olympics – None Are American
The 2016 Summer Olympics in Rio, Brazil is already blazing the way for out LGBT athletes. A record 42 Olympians are lesbian,…
Why Straight Men Should be Flattered Gay Guys Check Them Out
If there’s one thing you can’t blame a man for, it’s staring at another man’s body. Whether it’s sexual or for sizing…
Stop Begging for a Man’s Love If He’s Not Giving It in Return
In my household we were told that love is the measure of our value. We are’t judged by how much we love, but…