Tag: sex

I have never been a truly sad person. My morning ritual consists of waking up, turning towards the window, smiling, saying “thank…

October 2, 2016 4 min read

Gay culture is constructed in a way that almost prevents us from growing up. When I ventured into West Hollywood in my…

August 10, 2016 4 min read

I remember when Grindr first came out. Most gay guys bashed it: “That’s so trashy, I would never do that,” my friends…

July 23, 2016 5 min read

The most devastating realization I ever had in my life was when I came clean and admitted I wasn’t perfect. I looked…

May 24, 2016 4 min read

Human beings make an impression on each other within a matter of seconds—by ten, they pretty much have their minds made up.…

May 23, 2016 4 min read

We all fear what we don’t know, and many gay guys today don’t know squat about HIV. Since the invention of hookup…

April 10, 2016 3 min read

A lot of gay men carry a quiet sense of guilt about the way they date. Maybe you are not looking for…

March 2, 2016 3 min read

Being sexy has nothing to do with your body, hair or how great your smolder glistens in the morning. Sexiness is something…

March 2, 2016 3 min read

Gay dating culture can be brutal about bodies. Scroll through any dating app and you will see the same message repeated: one…

December 22, 2015 2 min read

By the time you realize what you lost I will be found. You’ve become a virus. Memories and habits return against my…

December 22, 2015 3 min read